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The Soft Reset : Choosing Comfort Over Hustle This Fall

The Soft Reset : Choosing Comfort Over Hustle This Fall

There’s something about fall that always feels like a quiet invitation to start over. Maybe it’s the shift in the air, or the way everything seems to slow down just a little … the air feels crisp, mornings feel softer, light filters differently through the windows, and suddenly, the idea of doing less starts to feel like enough.

In the past, I used to treat fall like a fresh-start season. I’d make long lists of goals, reset routines, reorganize everything in sight, and convince myself that “new season, new me” was the only way forward. But lately, I’ve been craving something gentler.

This year, my fall reset looks less like a to-do list and more like a mindset shift.

I’m choosing comfort over hustle and peace over performance. I’ve stopped organizing my life around everyone else’s chaos.

That means staying in bed that extra five minutes, taking longer afternoon walks, treating myself to a nice meal, fewer tabs open, slower mornings with a mug that actually gets finished while it’s still warm, and setting my phone to Do Not Disturb when needed.

It means saying no to the constant push to optimize every part of my life and (trying) not feeling guilty for actually saying no (and that’s another challenge in itself). Saying yes to things I want to do, not simply doing things because I’m expected to or because someone asks. Taking some control back is the reset I’ve been looking for.

It’s funny how much we’re taught to associate “reset” with productivity. But sometimes, the best kind of reset is stepping away from the pressure to constantly improve. Maybe it’s organizing one drawer instead of the whole house. Maybe it’s curling up with a blanket and not feeling guilty for binge-watching your favorite show. Maybe it’s just giving yourself permission to not be in a rush.

So this season, I’m not chasing a better version of myself. I’m slowing down long enough to actually meet her, to find out her needs and wants. It’s time to show up for myself, take care of myself, and gently “reset” my brain.

If fall has always felt like a season of change for you too, maybe this year it can be the season of staying grounded instead. Light the candle. Put on your sweatpants. Listen to your favorite music. Dance like nobody’s watching. Take a deep breath and notice the small, good things.

That’s the kind of reset that lasts.

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Life Lately – What I’ve Been Loving, Learning & Letting Go Of

Life Lately – What I’ve Been Loving, Learning & Letting Go Of

It’s been a minute since I sat down to write, and while I could blame it on being busy (which is true), the deeper reason is that I’ve been doing some soul searching behind the scenes. You know those seasons in life where you’re quietly shifting, even if things look the same on the outside? That’s where I’ve been lately.

So instead of another structured tip list or product roundup, I wanted to share something a little more personal. So, here’s a peek into what life’s been feeling like these days — through the lens of what I’m loving, learning, and letting go of.

💗 What I’m Loving

1. Slow mornings

I’ve been making space for slow starts, not rushing into the day, not diving into emails right away. Just letting myself breathe. A  morning snuggle with the dog, a little sunlight (I even got a Happy Light for my office) and my favorite podcast. It’s been a small shift, but it feels grounding in all the right ways.

2. Skin refresh mode

My skincare routine has gone lighter lately, and I’m loving the switch. Think gentle cleansers, calming serums, and hydrating mists. I’ve also been reaching for anything that feels nourishing. (More on that in an upcoming post!)

3. Saying yes to what sparks joy — and no to what drains me

Whether it’s people, plans, projects, or even work, I’m giving myself full permission to say yes only when it feels aligned. It’s empowering and honestly, long overdue.

🧠 What I’m Learning

1. That rest isn’t lazy — it’s necessary

I’ve always felt a little guilty when I’m not “doing” something.  I have so much to do in a day that I feel the need to fill every moment getting things done. But I’m learning that rest can be just as productive as action — especially when it’s intentional.

2. I don’t have to post constantly to be relevant

It’s easy to feel like if you’re not showing up online all the time, you’ll be forgotten. But here’s what I’ve learned: quality beats quantity. I’d rather share something honest and real than force content just to stay visible.

3. Comparison is a thief — and I don’t have time for it

Whether it’s social media, career, or even wellness routines — it’s easy to fall into the trap of measuring ourselves against others. I’m practicing staying in my own lane and giving myself grace.

✨ What I’m Letting Go Of

1. Perfectionism

I’m done with the idea that everything has to be just right before I share it, wear it, or do it. I’d rather be real than perfect. And I’m finding so much freedom in that.

2. Hustle energy 24/7

The world glamorizes burnout like it’s a badge of honor, but I’m choosing something softer. I’m still working, still growing, but I’m doing it with a little more ease.

3. Trying to do it all alone

Asking for help used to feel like failure. Now, I see it as strength. Whether it’s delegating, venting, or leaning on support, I’m letting people in and it’s making life feel a whole lot lighter.

Final Thoughts

Life doesn’t always require big dramatic changes. Sometimes it’s just subtle shifts … in mindset, in energy, in priorities … that realign us with who we are and how we want to live.

If you’ve been moving through your own quiet reset lately, I see you. And I’d love to know:

What are YOU loving, learning, or letting go of right now?

Drop it in the comments

Until next time,

💛 Jody