Life Lately – What I’ve Been Loving, Learning & Letting Go Of
It’s been a minute since I sat down to write, and while I could blame it on being busy (which is true), the deeper reason is that I’ve been doing some soul searching behind the scenes. You know those seasons in life where you’re quietly shifting, even if things look the same on the outside? That’s where I’ve been lately.
So instead of another structured tip list or product roundup, I wanted to share something a little more personal. So, here’s a peek into what life’s been feeling like these days — through the lens of what I’m loving, learning, and letting go of.
💗 What I’m Loving
1. Slow mornings
I’ve been making space for slow starts, not rushing into the day, not diving into emails right away. Just letting myself breathe. A morning snuggle with the dog, a little sunlight (I even got a Happy Light for my office) and my favorite podcast. It’s been a small shift, but it feels grounding in all the right ways.
2. Skin refresh mode
My skincare routine has gone lighter lately, and I’m loving the switch. Think gentle cleansers, calming serums, and hydrating mists. I’ve also been reaching for anything that feels nourishing. (More on that in an upcoming post!)
3. Saying yes to what sparks joy — and no to what drains me
Whether it’s people, plans, projects, or even work, I’m giving myself full permission to say yes only when it feels aligned. It’s empowering and honestly, long overdue.
🧠 What I’m Learning
1. That rest isn’t lazy — it’s necessary
I’ve always felt a little guilty when I’m not “doing” something. I have so much to do in a day that I feel the need to fill every moment getting things done. But I’m learning that rest can be just as productive as action — especially when it’s intentional.
2. I don’t have to post constantly to be relevant
It’s easy to feel like if you’re not showing up online all the time, you’ll be forgotten. But here’s what I’ve learned: quality beats quantity. I’d rather share something honest and real than force content just to stay visible.
3. Comparison is a thief — and I don’t have time for it
Whether it’s social media, career, or even wellness routines — it’s easy to fall into the trap of measuring ourselves against others. I’m practicing staying in my own lane and giving myself grace.
✨ What I’m Letting Go Of
1. Perfectionism
I’m done with the idea that everything has to be just right before I share it, wear it, or do it. I’d rather be real than perfect. And I’m finding so much freedom in that.
2. Hustle energy 24/7
The world glamorizes burnout like it’s a badge of honor, but I’m choosing something softer. I’m still working, still growing, but I’m doing it with a little more ease.
3. Trying to do it all alone
Asking for help used to feel like failure. Now, I see it as strength. Whether it’s delegating, venting, or leaning on support, I’m letting people in and it’s making life feel a whole lot lighter.
Final Thoughts
Life doesn’t always require big dramatic changes. Sometimes it’s just subtle shifts … in mindset, in energy, in priorities … that realign us with who we are and how we want to live.
If you’ve been moving through your own quiet reset lately, I see you. And I’d love to know:
What are YOU loving, learning, or letting go of right now?
Drop it in the comments
Until next time,
💛 Jody